The Leader’s Mirror:
Words That Shape Your Impact
Let’s get real for a minute. That voice in your head? It’s running your leadership more than you think. I’ve coached enough executives to know one universal truth: great leaders don’t just manage teams—they master their mindset first.
The “I Am” Effect
When you declare “I am resilient” during tough times, you’re not lying to yourself—you’re leading yourself. Neuroscience shows these affirmations aren’t fluffy motivation; they’re literal brain rewiring. Say “I am prepared” enough times, and watch how your nervous system starts acting like it’s true.
My Morning Ritual
Every single morning., I stand in front of my bathroom mirror and speak these words with my whole chest. Why? Because leadership isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about showing up as the kind of person who can find them.
Try this today:
- Pick one affirmation that makes you slightly uncomfortable (that’s where growth starts)
- Say it out loud like you mean it (no whispering)
- Notice how it changes your decisions before lunch
The Raw Truth
Your team will never believe in your vision if you don’t first. Those “I am” statements? They’re not just words—they’re the armor you wear into battle every day.
Challenge: Share the affirmation you need most right now in the comments. Let’s normalize leaders talking about the inner work.
Here’s to shaping your impact!
–Steve
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About the Author
Steve Gutzler is the President of Leadership Quest, a premier leadership development company based in Scottsdale. As a dynamic and highly sought-after speaker, Steve has delivered over 2,500 impactful presentations to renowned organizations such as Microsoft, Starbucks, the Seattle Seahawks, Spotify, Boeing, Cisco, Starwood Hotels, Ritz-Carlton, and the U.S. Department of Commerce.
A published author and thought leader on leadership and emotional intelligence, Steve lives near Scottsdale with his wife, Julie. Together, they cherish time spent with their three adult children and six grandchildren.
